I am a ‘softy’ and I am proud to be a ‘softy’ nowadays – this was not always the case! I cry (sometimes buckets) when I watch a movie (e.g. Gandhi, Schindlers List) that shows the best of our humanity in action. I cry when I read a story where someone has put their humanity into action (e.g. Three Cups of Tea). I cry when I listen to someone who shares an inspiring story with passion.
Just now I found my humanity touched. I found myself inspired and I found myself with tears of joy running down my face. What brought that on? I invite you to experience it for yourself. Watch this TED talk by William Ury: The walk from Yes to No
I believe that most of us are good people – loving and caring human beings. Most of us really do not want to create conflict or be immersed in conflict. Yet it happens we find ourselves in the midst of conflict before we know it. This talk provides a simple but not simplistic path that we can all follow. It may even inspire many of us to be hospitable to strangers and not just our close friends and family.
I love the bit about walking together – side by side. How true it is that when I walk with a fellow human being I do not feel threatened, I even look forward to the experience.