We go about living as if life is simple. We assume that life is black and white. We assume that reality and truth is one dimensional, and not multi-dimensional. We assume that we can access ultimate reality and truth. We asume that the way that we see it and speak it, is that way that it is. And we are oblivious to these assumptions. As such, we show up in the world and operate from these assumptions. In doing so we generate conflict, we fracture relationships, and we hinder our ability to be effective in the world as it is.
Is there an alternative? Yes, there is and it starts with getting a profound truth about our existence in this world. It is the kind of truth that is pointed out in the following parable:
The Mulla Nasruddin [a wise fool in sufi teaching stories] was sitting court one day. A husband and wife came to the court to settle the matter of who should be in charge of their son’s education. The wife argued that she should be given sole custody, giving many fine reasons to support her view. Mulla Nasruddin said, “You are absolutely correct!” Then the husband spoke to defend his position. In response, Mulla Nasruddin exclaimed, “You are absolutely correct!”. Immediately, a cleric in the back of the court stood up and cried out, “Nasruddin, they both can’t be right!” To which Mulla Nasruddin replied, “You are absolutely correct!”
Is it possible that each and everyone of us has some access to truth? Is it possible that there is some truth in everything? Is it possible that despite our best efforts all we can ever arrive at is some approximation to truth? And what would be possible if each and everyone of us showed up in the world being present to and living these questions?