Transformation always start with our way of being-in-the-world. And our way of being-in-the-world is a function of cultural practices and what we do or do not do, regularly and how we do what we do.
One route to transforming the quality of our lives and of life itself is to consciously adopt new ways of being and doing. And keep at these until they became habitual and we do not even notice our way of being-in-the-world: how we show up, what we do and how we do it.
If like me you find yourself called to the possibility of kindness, gentleness, harmony, aliveness, and a world that works for all then I leave you with the following:
The essence of human revolution is overcoming our lack of compassion.
Giving yourself wholly to the person in front of you – everything begins with this; it is the fundamental path of humanist philosophy.
Philosophy comes down to standing up for the principles you believe in no matter what.
– Daisaku Ikeda
It occurs to me that the most profound, truest giving, that one can give is to ‘give oneself wholly to the person in front of oneself’. And that usually is the people we find ourselves living with, working with, interacting with on a daily basis: wives, husband, sons, daughters, aunts, uncles, cousin, nephews, friends, colleagues, acquaintances, colleagues, customers, suppliers, neighbours …..
What would show up in my life if I gave myself wholly to the person in front of me? What would show up in your life if you gave yourself wholly to the person in front of you? What kind of world would be find ourselves in if enough of us gave ourselves wholly to the person in front of me? It occurs to me that ‘giving yourself wholly to the person in front of you’ is transformation: it transforms our experience of our living.
So easy to write, to say. So hard to do – at least for me. And I know that a journey of a thousand miles starts with one step. And the journey of giving starts with the next person I encounter. And is never ended, never a failure, for as long as I continue to ‘walk the path’. It occurs to me that ‘walking the path’ is transformation.