First and foremost I thank each and everyone of you that continues to listen to the speaking that occurs, from time to time, on this blog. I wish each of you the very best for this year. You might have noticed that my wishes, your wishes, his/her wishes, make no difference. It is my actions, your actions, his/her actions that will shape our lives and the lives of others.
Action. I have chosen to take more action this year. To play sports more often. To go walking in nature more often. To do that which I have not done more often. To visit places that I have not visited. To speak (through blogging) more often and make that sharing more personal.
What gets in the way of you taking action and playing BIG in life? I don’t know the answer to that question. I do know that I stop myself by failing to accept imperfection and complicating stuff. I know someone who is so perfectionist that this person does not attempt anything significant. Why attempt anything if you have persuaded yourself that what you have to offer the world is not good enough. Or that you are not ok with good enough, it has to be perfect – nothing less than perfect will do.
Allow me to bring this to life through some examples.
When I first starting speaking (through blogging) I simply spoke: speaking as a form of self-expression, speaking as way of sharing that which I had to share, speaking as a source of contribution to others…. To keep this speaking simple, I simply wrote and published in one go – no spell checking, no editing, just speaking.
Somewhere along the line I start complicating it! How so? I complicate it by asking myself if my speaking was worthy of your listening? I asked myself whether speaking is just a way of feeding my ego? I asked myself whether I was wasting my time? You may have noticed that I didn’t speak much last year.
Second example, perhaps a better example. This morning I found present within myself an eagerness to speak on my other blog. Usually, I just open up my MacBook and write. Today, I complicated it. How so? I persuaded myself that I needed to use my laptop riser/stand. Then it occurred to me that I needed to get hold of the external keyboard. Once I had gotten hold of these I realised that I needed a mouse. By the time I got these piece of equipment together I found that my inner desire to speak had vanished. That desire had been replaced with a feeling of this is too much effort and I will do it another time.
If you are not taking action / playing BIG then look and see where you may be complicating stuff that really is not complicated. Simplify to the core, do away with embellishments. AND give up your insistence on perfection first time: accept imperfection, act, learn, refuel, iterate and get to excellence or just plain “Good enough!” You’d be surprised how much impact you can make by going wholeheartedly for “Good enough!”
I thank you for your listening. Until the next time or as the French say “A la prochaine.”